The conversation revolved around the challenges men face in achieving their full potential, including self-sabotage and negative self-talk. Daryl Urbanski shared his personal journey of overcoming childhood trauma and finding self-worth, while Tim Matthews discussed the importance of aligning with one's truth for success. Both Daryl and Tim emphasized the need to break free from societal expectations and embrace authenticity, creativity, and inner fulfillment.
They also highlighted the abundance of resources and opportunities available in today's world, and the importance of simplifying life and focusing on what truly matters. Throughout the conversation, Tim and Daryl emphasized the need to acknowledge and work through personal struggles to achieve growth and understanding, and to tap into one's inner confidence and creative power to live a fulfilling life.
Reasons to Listen to the Full Interview
Learn how to redefine your definition of success and happiness to align with your personal beliefs.
Discover how societal norms and unconscious habits can hinder success, and learn how to break these patterns.
Understand the importance of self-realisation, and how expressing your true self can affect your personal and professional progress.
Resources
- The Powerful Man, Tim Matthews’s website offering various courses and coaching for men.
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Interview Highlights:
Tim Matthews: Personal growth and overcoming past traumas
- Tim identified a gap in the market for postnatal fitness and created Fitness for Mom to fill it.
- Tim met Tom Crusher, who inspired her to reassess her entire life and business, leading to a shift in mindset and approach.
- Tim Matthews describes childhood experience with father, feeling inadequate after he dismisses son's football goals.
- Tim Matthews struggles with self-worth throughout life, using external validation to prove worth to others.
Father-son relationship, inner voice, and personal growth
- Tim shares their personal story of ignoring their inner voice and facing challenges with their father.
- Tim begins to heal and reconnect with their father through social media and self-reflection.
- Tim shared personal story of healing through father-daughter bonding
- Tim Matthews's father revealed he was proud of her despite never expressing it before
- Tim Matthews's message of empowerment resonated with men, leading to business growth
Aligning with one's truth and power to achieve success
- Daryl Urbanski shares his story of overcoming challenges in his business career, including walking away from a wedding and starting over from scratch.
- Tim discusses how their father's actions affected their perception of power and how they chose to address it in a powerful way.
- Tim shared their journey of creating a successful business by following their truth and purpose.
- Daryl and Tim emphasized the importance of aligning with one's beliefs and values to achieve success.
- Tim shares personal journey of self-discovery and alignment with inner truth.
Abundance, scarcity, and authentic living
- Daryl Urbanski emphasizes the abundance of resources available to us, rather than focusing on scarcity.
- Daryl Urbanski and Tim Matthews discuss common mistakes entrepreneurs make in pursuit of success.
Authenticity, self-expression, and living a true life
- Daryl Urbanski and Tim discuss the importance of authenticity and letting one's true self shine.
- Top regrets of the dying include not being true to oneself, according to a survey of nurses in palliative care.
- Daryl Urbanski and Tim discuss the importance of living a life true to oneself and letting go of societal expectations.
- Daryl and Tim explore the idea of having the power to dream 75 or 100 years of life, with the ability to change and grow in each dream.
Personal growth, relationships, and embracing vulnerability
- Daryl Urbanski and Tim discuss the importance of awareness and letting go of limiting beliefs and behaviors to live a fulfilling life.
- Daryl and Tim emphasize the need to prioritize relationships and be fully present in them to avoid internal conflict and live a more meaningful life.
- Tim Matthews shares insights on relationships, vulnerability, and creative power.
- Acceptance of self and others leads to deeper connections and personal growth.
Prioritizing life over work, simplifying daily tasks, and focusing on what truly matters
- Daryl Urbanski discusses the importance of living in the present moment, rather than constantly chasing goals and dwelling on the future.
- Tim Matthews shares their own struggles with this mindset, and how they've come to prioritize relationships and depth over superficial action.
- Daryl Urbanski shares his simplified approach to life, focusing on intentional actions and prioritizing what truly matters.
- Daryl believes overcomplicating life leads to suffering, and suggests cutting out distractions to focus on fundamental needs like food, shelter, and companionship.
Habits and rituals for success, including checking in with oneself and identifying feelings
- Daryl Urbanski advocates for creating a 24-hour schedule for personal growth and self-awareness.
- Tim emphasize the importance of allowing one's feelings to be a compass for daily actions and decisions.
- Tim Matthews recommends checking in with oneself every 3 hours to explore feelings and identify triggers.
- Process involves identifying feelings, looking at truth, committing to purpose, and receiving evidence of progress.
Life, death, consciousness, and following one's instincts
- Instincts are valuable, train them with feedback.
- Soul is eternal, remember power within.
- Daryl Urbanski discusses merging human brains with computers, uploading consciousness, and the potential for a collective consciousness.
- Daryl Urbanski emphasizes the importance of following one's intuition and living life true to oneself.
- Daryl Urbanski references Alan Watts' idea that consciousness is like a wave in the ocean, and that our individual lives are part of a larger collective consciousness.
Embracing individuality and personal growth
- Encourage yourself to lose your mind and explore life without limitations.
- Tim desires to help others through their passions and experiences.
Personal growth and business coaching
- Reach out to Tim Matthews through Facebook or the powerful man.com website for more information or to connect with the community.
- Upcoming events include a group coaching program and a 8-day trip to the Himalayas for high level men, with limited spots available.
- Daryl Urbanski shares his struggles and lessons learned as a man in a vulnerable conversation.
- Listeners are invited to share their own challenges and goals for personal and professional growth.
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Tim Matthews
Tim Matthews is the founder of The Powerful Man, a movement helping men break free from outdated expectations and step into their full potential. Through transformational coaching, immersive experiences, and a deep understanding of modern masculinity, he empowers men to embrace their power without sacrificing happiness, relationships, or well-being. Tim’s work focuses on energy management, self-leadership, and purpose-driven success—shifting men away from burnout and into fulfillment. His mission is clear: to help men strip away the noise, reclaim their confidence, and build lives they truly love, filled with purpose, passion, and lasting personal growth.
